Definition of a Douchebag:
Douche bag, or simply douche, is considered to be a pejorative term. The slang usage of the term originated in the 1960s.The term usually refers to a person, usually male, with a variety of negative qualities, specifically arrogance and engaging in obnoxious and/or irritating actions, most often without malicious intent. -Wikipedia
A faggot with a red face and wannabee gangster tendencies. Also sometimes asian and wangster like.
- One of the many condescending definitions in Urbandictionary.com
A Douchebag, while used as a general insult towards anyone is actually more or less fixed in its characteristics and definition. Popularized today by popular reality TV series, Jersey Shore, the Douchebag is well, generally looked down upon and laughed at what with all his douchey-ness and extravagant lifestyle. Check it out:
Common characteristics of a douchebag
- Orange skin from suntanning a lot, both indoor tanning and outdoor tanning included
- Heavily gel-ed and spiked hair
- Wears tight-fitting clothes, mostly Ed Hardy
- Puts on a lot of blings i.e. shiny jewellery
- Hobbies include going to the gym, suntanning and partying
- Likes to shout, “Bro!” and high five over anything cool
Here’s a picture to capture everything perfectly
Of course with such a definition and look, who would want to be a douchebag or actually respect a douchebag? You got to be out of your mind right?
Wrong. I would like to argue that being a Douchebag is actually kind of cool and there are several reasons why you ought to respect him.
He’s beefed up
Sure it’s easy to think that he’s kind of lame because all he cares about is going to the gym, pumping iron and drinking protein shakes. He just ends up looking like one of those stupid-looking beefcakes who are all muscle, has a small head containing minimal brain.
However, in case you forgot, it takes real discipline and determination to keep up with a fitness regime and attain a good body. The willpower to stave off fatty food and other crap is something admirable too.
Maybe the douchebag looks stupid, but you can’t deny the amount of strength he has. Make fun of him all you like, but don’t blame anybody if you get bashed in the face.
Chicks, girls, ladies
The Douchebag gets all the girls. Face it, girls prefer a dude with a nice body compared to a skinny twig. Hell girls generally prefer guys who are just somehow that more interesting and hence worth a second look. Also, he has the balls to APPROACH the girl and talk to her. Like 90% of the male population lack balls to do that.
Can you really say it’s lame to get the girls? If you answered yes, you must be gay or just deeply insecure because you just don’t dare to do something for yourself.
Confidence and swagger
Say whatever you want, but the Douchebag has admirable and unstoppable confidence. Afterall, they have the ladies and the body. The very fact that they choose not to care what the hell anyone else thinks about them is already an awesome trait in its own right. He wears stupid clothes, exaggerate the crap he wears, talks about himself, or girls most of the time, but does he give a fuck? No.
It takes real confidence to be yourself and filter out the crap and noise others are giving you.
Can you really say you don’t care what others think about you? Do you hesitate and doubt the (little) things you do because you are afraid of what others think of you? Think about it. While you are making fun of others, do a little self-evaluation and check back on what you are perhaps lacking.
Attention and all the love
The Douchebag gets all the attention. That’s that. Maybe he’s hated by some, but he’s STILL getting the attention! That’s better than being low-life who nobody really gives a shit about. Imagine this: The Douchebag gets promoted at work simply because he’s loud and gets the boss’s attention. You? You got nothing because nobody knows or cares about you.
Just check out Jersey Shore. You laugh at the Douchebags inside, but they are making a fuckload of money now, as well as enjoying a bunch of perks. The funny part is you are probably watching and enjoying the show. That’s fucking ironic and messed up.
They dare to try new shit out
Even if they do it actively without thinking, guess what? They are always willing to try new shit out that most others would disagree with, like taking up quick money-making schemes that actually work. They just don’t give a fuck about what others think, man up and do what they love.
If you read that carefully, it means they actually dare to BE themselves! Who’s to say that others dare or have achieved that?
Time to Bro the fuck up
Whoever you are, wherever you are, there’s certainly a Douchebag in your midst. He could be an asshole, a dickhead, a jerk, your boss, your brother or whatever the hell you call him, it’s just someone you think is seriously annoying.
So what is it about him you really hate?
I think I know what the answer is:
That douchebag certainly doesn’t give a crap about you or anything
Think about it.
If anything, he’s more focused than ever to achieve whatever he wants in life. He gets to enjoy life just by being himself.
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What do you think of douchebags? Let me know in the comments.