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Why am I so vulgar? Bigger question is: Why can’t you live your own fucking life your own fucking way?

Vulgarities

So I’ve been getting a lot of people complaining and unsubscribing due to my filthy ass potty mouth that’s so fucking profane!!!

Just last night an email came in which simply stated, “Watch your language son”. LOL.

And sometime back, a reader emailed me saying, “You’re vulgar. Therefore nothing good can come from you”.

Oh man.

This is a lesson on vulgarity and (un)censoring yourself

First off, if you’re offended by profanities, by all means, go ahead. Don’t read this blog. Don’t get on my list and just avoid anything you consider dirty.

But thank you for separating yourself from the rest of us more open-minded people; people who dare to express themselves in ways no one else dare to; people who don’t judge.

You’ve helped unleash the possibility of a culture that can strive and be peaceful at the same time while not censoring itself. 

That being said… I’d encourage you to always stick to a culture which can enable you and make you great. Always only surround yourself with positive people yo. By all means, please unsubscribe or don’t ever come back here if it doesn’t suit you. I won’t hold you back.

Why you need to be vulgar and stop censoring yourself

Cause you need to live your own fucking life based on your heart.

Have your own standards of vulgarity, in which people think you’re different or even weird. This is how you follow your passion, not give a shit about others and do what you love. That’s what’s up!

Cause you need to stop wasting time on others.

People bitching non-stop about my language. Does it affect me? No. What am I doing? I’m just focusing on my shit and doing what I love. That’s another what’s up. Don’t waste your energy on others as if you’re going to make a difference. Make a difference for yourself.

Cause you need to express yourself in your own way.

This goes hand in hand with following your heart. You got to express yourself, like from everything in your mind, heart and soul, your own way. Express yourself in ways you don’t care for, like with a shitty job to please others, and you’re totally fucked.

Cause you need to stop making apologies for yourself.

Make zero apologies for yourself. You’re you. You’re unique and awesome. Don’t let some criticism get in the way of that awesomeness.

Cause fulfilling yourself would make you less judgemental.

I don’t know what goes through the minds of those who think I’m too profane, but it’s probably all not true. I express myself all the time, but that doesn’t mean I go forth spewing fucks, assholes and whatever to my grandma or someone I just met.

That’s just stupid. For fuck sakes it’s only common sense I don’t do any of that.

Be not afraid guys. Be yourself. Be smart. Be the best version of yourself. That’s a fucking awesome life.

Lead the life you want fully and truly with my books!

 

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6 comments

  1. Frank T - September 27, 2013 2:36 pm

    Another outstanding post, Alden. You’re at the top of your game, man! What I don’t get is why do you have to explain yourself all the time? Don’t people read your blog and see what they’re subscribing to? Maybe you should put an EXPLICIT or NSFW warning on each post. Ha!

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    • alden - October 1, 2013 12:43 pm

      Haha I enjoy it man. Fuck the rest.

      Reply
  2. Ayla - September 28, 2013 12:20 am

    Hey Alden!
    If you are being your authentic self, then there’s nothing to be afraid or ashamed about (not that I thought you were). I like your brisk honesty even if it’s rough around the edges. Keep on doing your thing your way. Those that don’t approve can go somewhere else but they’ll miss out…

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    • alden - October 1, 2013 12:43 pm

      Thanks Ayla

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  3. Kevin Cole - October 1, 2013 5:43 pm

    Totally agree bro.

    I say fuck, shit, and lots of other things on my own blog and people unsubscribe and say bad things, but who cares?

    I am just going to do what I feel is right. Ultimately, these are just words. How stupid is it that people put so much weight on a fuckin word?

    Luckily, there’s people like yourself who can keep an open mind and understand that we are not defined by words, we are defined by actions.

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    • alden - October 2, 2013 12:44 pm

      LOVE that last line.

      Reply

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