I’ve a big problem with guys nowadays.
They’re too damn whiny.
Everyone is complaining.
We all have our little pet peeves and idiosyncrasies, but to whine and complain over a tiny, little thing?
To get upset over something major or potentially life-changing, sure, by all means.
But to get upset over something small like the weather or because she didn’t reply you? Fuck that.
Just because you’ve something to complain about doesn’t mean that you should.
No one wants to really hear about it.
No one really wants to validate you.
No one really cares.
You can probably put it up on Facebook and get a bunch of likes, but that’s just bullshit. You’re not going to grow that way. You can’t live on a currency of likes and expect anything back.
What you should do instead is become resourceful, crank up that independence in you and start finding the solution on your own.
Man the fuck up.
A little pain wouldn’t kill you. A little bit of heartache isn’t the end of the world. A little bit of, oh, whatever.
At the end of the day it’s just a little bit, and therefore it doesn’t mean a damn thing.
So stop being a pussy.
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