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The no.1 thing to consider when choosing a life partner

I think that most people get this wrong all the time.

People always like to talk about having things in common, money, age, distance and all that.

All of these are good, but they mean nothing without a strong foundation.

And that foundation comes in the form of whether he or she loves you enough to want to take care of you over the long-term.

And then everything I mentioned before will come into play. They just do anyway.

This is life. Things change everyday. But your ability to love is something that should be the most steadfast. If it isn’t, you don’t love that person. It is as simple as that.

If you want to answer this question quickly and easily, ask it when you’re sick and dying, or extremely hungover in bed.

I guarantee you your answer will be the same as mine.

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4 comments

  1. felice - May 25, 2016 4:55 pm

    How very true and getting older one realizes just how important that is! I got very lucky in my old age:)
    Bravo for what you have written
    peace,
    felice

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  2. Obinna - June 6, 2016 7:50 am

    Choose a God-fearing and visionary person. Someone who can support you towards fulfilling your purpose.

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    • sonia - August 4, 2016 2:14 pm

      prehaps A man who has a faith… not neccesarily God-fearing. one shouldnt be fearful of faith..its an oxymoron!

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  3. sonia - August 4, 2016 2:15 pm

    Short,concise, too the point but deep & reflective!

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