Real Talk 1: Stop being a little bitch


This is going to be the first of my Real Talk series for the month of January. I’m going to challenge to myself to write everyday this month and yeah, expect a lot of real talk with zero bullshit.

Today’s post is called: Stop being a little bitch

Stop being a little bitch. Just because you’ve something to complain about doesn’t mean that you should.Only whiners complains. Only weaklings seek opportunities to complain. Grow up. Put your energy into finding the solution. Seek the answer. This would impress the shit out of your boss, because nobody wants to see a work email that’s filled with problems. 

Stop being a little bitch. A little sickness isn’t a big deal. A little cold? A tiny cough? A small cut?! Grow some balls. It didn’t kill you. It’s not the end of the world. Fight through the pain and deal with it.

Stop being a little bitch. Stop focusing on your problems. There’re many things in life to be grateful for. You just have to open your eyes and see it. You’ve to open your mind and see things for what they really are. Focus on the good shit in your life already. Realize how good you have it. You’re bigger than your damn problems.

Stop being a little bitch. Because somebody out there has it worse than you and would KILL to be in your shoes in this very moment.

Stop being a little bitch. Why take offense at every damn thing? Why is your world always hurt because of a mere opinion? Why do you have to be so defensive?

Stop being a little bitch. Throw sensitivity out the window. Nobody likes an overly sensitive shithead. That’s how you lose friends as they start to feel like they’re constantly walking on eggshells around you.

Stop being a little bitch. Man up and apologize if you know you’re in the wrong.

Stop being a little bitch. Like, for once, stop gossiping and talking about others so damn much. It gets tiring. It also reflects badly on you. Remember, average people talk about things while little people talk about others only. Do you want to lower yourself so much?

Stop being a little bitch. Have some fun already! Stop being a downer. No one likes a killjoy. No one likes a burden. You’re no fun if you’re nothing but a ball of negative energy.

Stop being a little bitch.

Be a big bitch instead. Care for issues such that you think in a way no one can understand. Maybe they’ll even call you crazy, but who the fuck cares? Stand up for yourself and your values, but respect others’ opinions too. Care for others, but do it in a way that actually inconveniences you. Don’t act all self-righteous and shit just because you gave spare change to the homeless like most do. Be a leader and speak out. Lead a damn tribe. Earn haters because that means you mean something.

So are you little bitch or a big bitch?

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  1. Reg - January 1, 2016 10:32 pm

    Brilliantly put. Alden has written a message well worth keeping.

  2. Sekelani - January 5, 2016 5:23 am

    Whenever i read your blog posts i feel motivated in life. Keep it up Alden!


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