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Maybe happiness isn’t a choice

This seems to be psychobabble of late: Happiness is a choice. Writers, bloggers, speakers, gurus, random inspirational guy on Instagram or whoever like to vomit this line all the time. I’d admit I was guilty of it before. Is happiness really a choice? It sounds like it is, but tell[…]

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Your dreams are fucking overrated

People keep saying today, “Follow your dreams.” “Work hard and make your dreams come true.” “It’s only when you achieve your dreams that you get to have true happiness.” Fuck. All. Of. That. I’ve been writing in the self-help space for so long that I want to puke whenever I[…]

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The self-help space is the most ironic space

Self-help entrepreneur claims to love helping people and wants to change the world. He makes a ton of money. He does some controversially unethical things in his business, but brushes it aside because the money he makes makes it seem alright. And these are considered the good ones. There are[…]

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