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2017

Oct 12      12 deep observations of life I made from 32 years of my life

Aug 04      Maybe it’s time to change Self-help into Please-Help-Me?

Jul 31      Why the selfie girl disgusts me the most

Jul 17      The paradox of not giving a shit anymore

Jul 03      Musings: I’d rather go for a wake than a wedding

Jun 27      Funny how good things are usually said after someone dies or after there’s a breakup

Jun 20      Never take advice from people who were lucky

Jun 14      Toxicity is but a subtle thief

Jun 12      “Please. No more small talk, I want to know about the universe floating in your eyes”

Jun 08      If someone sounds too stupid to be real, it means they probably aren’t

Jun 07      Look man, luck is real and does play a big role in life

Jun 06      I like to be Liked, is there a problem?

Jun 05      Somewhere out there is somebody who thinks Harry Potter is a piece of shit, and that is that

Jun 02      It is only

May 30      Thank you gay friends with Gaydar

May 29      The Irony Of People Who Love To “Hustle”

May 25      Lucky guys

May 24      A judge judges, that’s why we do the same

May 22      Why can’t we acknowledge that there’s all kinds of suffering?

May 17      “He/she is like that” is not a legitimate reason

May 15      The new age of infidelity

May 11      No, I don’t love life

May 10      Look at these freaking weirdos

May 09      How to get over your first breakup [Short story]

May 08      “If it’s so easy, then the entire world would be doing the same” EXTENDED EDITION

May 05      Things I hate as an introvert #2: Group chats

May 04      Convenient answers

May 03      The problem with “actually” being a nice person

May 02      Stop using emoticons to flirt with girls

May 01      For highly empathetic people

Apr 28      Nobody knows how you go to bed every night

Apr 24      Cliched advice will never work for people who are still trying

Apr 21      Social media is turning us into sneaky ass bastards

Apr 20      If it’s something important to you, then it ain’t shallow

Apr 19      Art is feeling

Apr 18      It’s like suddenly, you realize you get to be okay

Apr 17      Honesty is dark, and abstract

Mar 27      The racist customer

Feb 20      Level up like a hero in this life

Feb 13      When smartphones stop being smart

Feb 06      You never know how it is that they go to bed

Jan 18      Being an introvert is not an excuse though

Jan 17      The most sensible horror story ever

Jan 06      Nice Club

Jan 01      That’s Okay

2016

Nov 14      Date someone from far away once in your life

Oct 24      Interview With Bboy Thesis: On Depression, Dance, Life And Battling Them On All Grounds

Oct 18      I am an angry dude who has never gotten into a fight before, so I went to Thailand to learn some Muay Thai

Oct 17      Yo, stop being a fucking cliche and stop living your stereotype

Oct 13      Maybe it’s in our collective consciousness that’s allowing bad things to happen in this world

Sep 30      6 things I learnt from seeing a therapist

Sep 28      My Passion: The Beauty Of Bboying (Or Breakdancing For The Layman)

Sep 26      What it is like to lose a loved one you grew up with

Sep 09      Smooth and flow

Sep 08      An open letter to my late dad

Sep 06      Untold secrets of living life to the fullest

Sep 02      My bitch face

Aug 30      SAYING YOU’RE TIRED IS TOO CHEAP AN EXCUSE

Aug 25      Check their damn qualifications first

Aug 02      Everyone is already judging you, the fuck you talking about?

Jul 29      At first you don’t succeed, laugh, laugh again

Jul 25      Just fuck it

Jul 21      The approval of others really don’t matter

Jul 11      20 things that are so easy that they’re ultimate useless to you

Jun 13      We all do care about what others think

May 25      The no.1 thing to consider when choosing a life partner

May 20      7 Pieces of advice they will never teach you in college

May 16      Nobody Gives A Flying Fuck About You

May 11      7 of the quickest ways to get people to trust you

Apr 20      Hanging out with a homeless guy in Sydney

Apr 18      How To Deal With Depression, Anxiety And Low Self-Esteem

Apr 15      Stupid shit I stopped doing after I turned 30

Apr 13      The Epic And Awesome Guide To Writing Blog Articles Like A True Artist That People Want To Read And Share!

Apr 10      Keanu Reeves says, “People you cannot hide from your poison.”

Apr 05      Karma is bullshit

Apr 02      100 Ways To Fuck Up Your Entire Life

Mar 31      Why We Feel Bad

Mar 29      How to radically change your life today

Mar 27      Don’t Live Everyday Like It’s Your Last. Live Like This Instead

Mar 25      10 Ways To Be Really Ugly And Unattractive

Mar 23      7 Pieces of Business Advice From Successful People That Are Actually Worthless

Mar 21      The 5 Most Important Lessons For a Man To Learn In Life

Mar 15      Are looks that important in life? How to get over the idea that you think you’re ugly

Feb 27      How to get a girl to like you

Feb 24      20 celebrities encouraging the hell out of you so you can be happy and motivated

Feb 21      Real Talk 28: Should you quit your boring job to do what you love?

Feb 17      How to finally understand women

Feb 14      Real Talk 26: There is no perfect environment

Feb 11      Real Talk 25: This is what bullies feel like all the time

      20 honest Valentine’s Day cards for couples who hate boring cliches

Feb 07      Real Talk 22: Happiness is a tall, pint of cold beer

Feb 03      The Gods who created the world

Feb 01      Real Talk 19: If you live by this, you deserve to die

Jan 22      Real Talk 15: Letter to the kid who eats alone

Jan 15      Real Talk 11: Don’t lead a headline life

Jan 13      Real Talk 10: Let’s stop filtering reality to really live

Jan 12      Real Talk 9: Nobody really knows what they’re doing

Jan 11      Real Talk 8: 20 things to remember on your first date

Jan 08      Real Talk 8: Excuses are not reasons

Jan 07      Real Talk 7: How to trick people into thinking you’re really sophisticated

Jan 06      Real Talk 6: Looks fucking matter

Jan 05      Real Talk 5: The secret to life in 3 fucking easy points

Jan 04      Real Talk 4: Your thoughts are your reality

Jan 03      Real Talk 3: Don’t dwell on shit

2015

Nov 25      First you fall, then you fly

Nov 24      You’re not supposed to make romance hard

Nov 23      Be the fuck alone

Nov 13      Camaraderie

Nov 10      Why I write today and the power of books and stories

Nov 06      The Art of Practice

Nov 05      How getting my first tattoo liberated me

Nov 03      Your life is not a joke

Nov 02      This is how easy it is for you to be ugly

Oct 30      The tale of the wise man who didn’t give a fuck

Oct 29      5 Secrets To Letting Go Of Anger

Oct 28      You were not born an angry baby

Oct 27      Fuck your dreams: The work is the goal

Oct 23      3 simple rules for you to lead a meaningful life

Oct 22      How to keep making mistakes in your life (without realizing that you are)

Oct 21      Revive Your Life is back! Free book!

Oct 20      A god is nothing to a non-believer

Oct 19      Shit doesn’t fall onto your lap. Opportunities must be grabbed

Oct 17      Believe in yourself so much that people think you’re nuts

Oct 16      Learn how to end your day right

Oct 14      24 ways to not take life too seriously so you can be happy

Oct 13      One easy and manly way to instantly make your day better: Talk to strangers

Oct 12      This article is for all the whiny guys out there

Oct 10      When did it become okay to lower our standards and settle for b.s.?

Oct 09      Be all style and all substance

Oct 08      The true definition of beauty and ugly

Oct 07      What I tell people when they experience death of a loved one

Oct 06      Assholes do not apologize

Oct 05      Sorry is an F word

Oct 01      The real meaning of true love

Sep 27      15 bullshit lies we tell ourselves to avoid whatever

Sep 23      You know this shit

Sep 22      It’s never logical

Sep 06      8 reasons why I don’t feel old after leaving my twenties

Jul 02      What a pervert at a beach taught me about human behavior

Jun 30      100 unlikely tips for a meaningful and happy life

Jun 17      When you make a special friend for the first time for the rest of your life

May 07      The things we don’t thank people for enough

Mar 31      Don’t say “Shit” when somebody dies

Mar 27      Clear your fast food tray already

Mar 26      An open letter to guys who put down girls who wear too much makeup

Mar 24      The importance of money and how to balance it out

Jan 16      15 important lessons from being semi-successful

Jan 14      How to easily win respect and charisma: Just one trick

Jan 12      Car breaks down: Impromptu picnic by the road then!

Jan 11      Fuck Vision Boards

Jan 09      Maybe we’re all a little too spoiled

Jan 08      Think about your online hater for a second

2014

Dec 17      7 things I learnt from quitting Facebook

Dec 10      You’re weird and that’s actually cool

Dec 08      A week of mourning: 6 life lessons from watching a love on go (beer included)

Nov 02      Evolving as Alden Tan

Nov 01      18 other important things besides love that make or break a relationship

Oct 22      21 lessons from being in a long-distance relationship (which people thought wouldn’t work out)

Oct 17      Why assholes exist

Oct 13      I’m getting drunk to write something inspirational. And this is the result.

Oct 07      7 things guys need to stop being proud of

Sep 16      Straight guy confession: Why I prefer to hang out with gay people sometimes

Sep 10      Why you need to avoid life coaches and their pretentious bullshit

Sep 08      Nearly 30 and still an angsty boy: Age… just a number?

Sep 02      A shift in aggression: What we need to do to stop young dudes from being so pissed off

Aug 28      17 grim lessons from three years of doing what you love

Aug 27      I did the ALS Ice Bucket challenge for my late dad

Aug 13      A tale of two dudes: 1 safe virgin, 1 sleazy fat ass

Aug 10      The monster in all of us: Why good people want other good people to die

Jul 04      13 assholes experiencing instant karma

Jun 24      We all want to be that guy…

Jun 20      Why you shouldn’t just be a nice person

Jun 12      The Young Adult success guide during and after school

Jun 05      How to stop being so confused in this world

Jun 04      13 kinds of flowery bullshit people say to manipulate you

Apr 03      This is a call out to the self-help world and all its bullshit practitioners

Mar 17      We’re all full of shit

Mar 15      7 life lessons I learnt from meeting my girlfriend’s parents for the first time

Mar 04      20 ways you’re playing life wrong

Jan 12      An ode to Introverts

Jan 06      Bangkok: The carnival of South East Asia

2013

Dec 24      Interview with Aaron Jackson: Exposer of The Truth

Dec 20      15 videos of soldiers’ homecoming that’d make your Xmas spirit explode

Dec 06      Interview with God: The almighty on Facebook who actually saves lives

Nov 23      Interview with Colin Wright from Exile Lifestyle: Traveller, writer and all-rounded nice dude!

Nov 12      I went for therapy once you know…

Nov 07      20 cancer stories that would inspire faith and courage

Sep 26      Simple reasons why you’re fucking awesome

Jun 18      Passion is truth

May 24      How to judge people so you don’t make loser friends

May 17      Your thoughts are not you

May 14      5 inspiring stories that need a makeover

May 09      The complete guide to getting a life

May 02      The beginner’s guide to getting self-esteem and self-confidence

Apr 11      10 South Park quotes teaching you how live life

Apr 08      That horrendous in-between feeling

Mar 27      What is your ONE thing?

Mar 08      Interview with Mark Manson: He attracts women with honesty

Mar 05      5 lessons learnt from working in a club for 5 years

Feb 06      Let’s fuck self-help up

Jan 07      It’s the little things

2012

Dec 11      Interview with Chris Guillebeu: The remarkable non-conformist

Jul 19      Interview with Anthony Rosner: Ex-World of Warcraft addict to awesome film maker.

May 19      Interview with Benjamin Jenks: Passionate traveller extraordinaire

Apr 11      Has it ever occurred to you that all your problems are just telling you to chill out?

Mar 22      Interview with Joel Runyon, awesome man who overcomes the impossible

Mar 06      23 unconventional quotes on love

Feb 20      Friends can be family too

Feb 08      In between right and wrong, there is something called Life

Jan 27      Handicapped people who give me hope.

Jan 22      5 “real” videos of people standing up for real shit in What Would You Do

Jan 20      The average person wakes up in the morning…

Jan 18      Your left and right brain, viewed in awesomeness

Jan 16      Awesome tattooed parents are awesome

Jan 05      Getting out of the Matrix life

2011

Dec 23      How to get over death of a loved one

Dec 08      Everybody has a story to tell and how to tell yours

Dec 01      Learn from a legend: What Bruce Lee can teach you about life

Nov 24      This is why soldiers are awesome

Nov 07      50 things you can tell yourself to not care about what others think of you

Nov 02      The real deal on toughness

Oct 31      This is real love: Man married his high school sweetheart who had cancer

Oct 23      5 lottery winners who got fucked

Oct 11      Webcomic: Two ways to react to a hot girl you just met

Oct 10      The issue on self-help books

Sep 20      Top 5 thai ads that inspire

Aug 02      When you think your life sucks: Watch this video

Jul 27      Why being a Douchebag is actually kind of awesome

Jul 07      Is Karma real?