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Real Talk 2: It gets fucking better

It gets better

As I look back into my life now I am amazed at some of the friendships I have maintained up till today.

Some were great ones, but do not exist anymore today due to my conscious decision to dump toxic relationships.

Some others had a bizarre twist of fate. They did not start out good at all. I remember meeting them and being extremely annoyed with them for many months. I considered them toxic then.

But today, I’m friends with these people.

It’s weird how life can turn out for you as you grow up.

And the point is… it gets fucking better.

I love how Dan Savage puts it in the video below. Take a few minutes out to watch it.

Dan and his husband Terry had it bad as they were bullied for being gay and all when young.

This article isn’t just about bullying though. It’s about how as you grow up, things will always get better because of maturity and all that. 

You can and will let go of shit.

You can make active choices to decide who you want to surround yourself with.

You will, without even trying also feel a lot better about yourself and the relationships you have as you mellow out and learn how to deal with your emotions on a higher level. It’s pretty automatic. It will feel natural then.

That is why you need to chill today.

If somebody is bullying, bothering, annoying or just being an asshole to you today, know that it won’t be like that after time passes. Maybe you guys will be friends as it becomes water under the bridge. Or more likely, you guys won’t cross paths again.

Look forward to that future. Whatever that is toxic or hostile in front of you today, it is not real.

Make time your bitch though

But you know something?

You can make it fucking better today. Now.

Fuck waiting. Fuck growing up.

Time is for you to master. You are not the slave.

If you don’t like what is in front of you now, change it and make it fucking better.

Job sucks? Quit.

Friend is a toxic asshole who cares only for himself? Dump him, her.

Neighborhood is dangerous? Move.

In an abusive relationship? Break up.

Do you see how it will get fucking better no matter what and that you can always make a choice?

All you have to do is man up and choose. Or you can wait. That takes a long time though.

Whatever it is you choose though, it gets fucking better.

So chill.

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2 comments

  1. john & jackie - January 2, 2016 10:52 pm

    Alden, simply to wish you a Great New Year; Love your Blogs.

    Now listen Alden, will you please send on to me : 12 Things. I have filled in thee Fucking Form, and nothing arrives. I want to read it. Now get it Fucking sorted.

    Cheers, John & Jackie.

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  2. shawn - January 3, 2016 1:50 am

    the fucking link doesn’t work for the book

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