Feel fucked up and do it anyway

I was just thinking about how people procrastinate. I have a lot of readers telling me they feel like they’re helpless. They don’t dare to do anything in life.

Most commonly, people blame it on procrastination.

You know what I think?

I think a bunch of you are just afraid to do anything.

You fear.

And it’s largely because you think you’ve the “right” to feel a certain, comfortable way.

And when that comfort is taken away… that happiness… you feel like you shouldn’t do anything.


Even though sometimes in life, when you feel less than stellar about something, or you feel a little uncomfortable…

You have to do it anyway.

That’s how you grow. That’s how you get out of your comfort zone.

If it feels a little fucked up… just do it anyway.

I mean, come on, is it really THAT HARD to do it? That whatever task you got to do?

If you cower away from doing things, then you’re just a little, whiny bitch who complains about everything in life. That’s what spoilt brats do.

You aren’t a spoilt brat. Don’t be like that. Man up, and do it. Grow.

Look at me… when my body is aching and feeling super tired, I still go out for some Bboying. I know that’s how I can improve and start busting some moves. No excuses! No off days!

And this blog post?? I know the word “fucked” is going to turn a lot of you off. A lot of you are going to unsubscribe and stop reading forever.

I don’t give a fuck. You don’t belong in my list. You should get out. But I do it anyway for the long-term vision of creating a community of like-minded, awesome folks so we can bond and share our lives together.

So don’t fear a little discomfort or even a little pain. Feel fucked up, and do it anyway. You will grow that way.

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  1. Wan Muhammad Zulfikri - January 10, 2014 9:49 am

    Man…you’re real.

    I like your style, Alden. People procrastinate too much because they are lazy and they can’t move their ass and get to work.

    When we are lazy, we give BS excuses such as I’m procrastinating and all sorts of nonsense.

    Procrastinators, you are not just procrastinating…you are lazy and dumb. Accept that and follow Alden’s advice – move and do something about it. Then you’ll get things done and be less dumber.

    Haha a reminder for me too because I procrastinate sometimes.

    Thanks for the awesome post Alden.

    • alden - January 10, 2014 4:50 pm

      Thank you man.

      Yeah bottomline: Just do it. Then you’ll feel good later. Win win.

  2. Sebastian - January 19, 2014 4:16 pm

    It’s called momentums. Most people have never build any constructive habits in their lives.

    • alden - January 21, 2014 7:31 am

      I know man. It really takes that make or break moment sometimes.


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