Everyone likes to say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.”
Or some shit.
Yet, how realistic is that?
We all judge. That’s what we do. It’s only human. We do that because we have to form a preconceived notion based on our past experience. On some level, it’s to protect ourselves.
Why fight it?
Besides, everyone is already judging you, the fuck you talking about?
Even if they’re nice enough to sit down, talk to you and open up to you, those judgmental thoughts have been lurking in their head.
If this pisses you off, you’re also judging.
If they do indeed blatantly reflect the judgmental on you by their mannerisms, then it is not because they’re judging. It is because they’re rude.
Don’t fight this. Don’t fight any of this. Just chill.
Judge wisely so you don’t make loser friends. That’s your only job.