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Be fucking proud of who you’re with

Everyone’s like, “Be proud of yourself” or “Take pride in yourself”.

Sure. But that’s boring.

I have been getting a bit of pressure from several friends about attending a wedding which I don’t really want to go for. Mainly cause I don’t want to waste my money to give tokens and also I gots some beef with some asshole who’s probably invited.

Now the thing is, weddings are so fucking mainstream.

Not hating on them. After all, I do want to marry my girl in time.

But do I absolutely have to attend a wedding just because it’s a wedding and that it’s supposedly important for the bride and groom?

Meh.

Aight, pressure’s off. I don’t think I will go, mainly because my doctor told me to not be so fucking stressed and pissed all the time. Or else what? Well, I may fall sick again.

It got me thinking to how important it is to have cool friends, and to be constantly hanging out with them.

Emphasis on “constantly”.

That way you will have zero pressure, zero stress and other shit from them.

You gotta have friends who are like, ready to, “Oh shit really?” High five! And, “Dude, no matter what, I’ll always fucking support you”.

You gotta have your own group.

You gotta have your own culture.

Where people understand and respect each other.

Be fucking proud of them. And then, you’d definitely be proud of yourself. NO WAY you can’t be.

That’s why I’m a Bboy. 

Get my book, Ready Your Life so you can be fucking proud of yourself.

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5 comments

  1. Dawn - August 5, 2013 12:51 pm

    Only go if you want to. That is just good self care. People who you are friends with (people you are proud of) will get it. The rest of the people’s opinion doesn’t really matter does it?

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    • alden - August 5, 2013 11:11 pm

      Yeah fuck them!!!

      Reply
  2. Maura - August 5, 2013 11:11 pm

    Don’t go if you don’t want to, and if they are not close to you. Don’t make yourself sick!!! Weddings can actually be fun if the right people are there for the right reason.

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  3. Angela - August 8, 2013 11:37 am

    “After all, I do want to marry my girl in time.”

    Why? So that society {others} can acknowledge that you have a “real” relationship? Fuck anybody that says my relationship isn’t real just because the government won’t issue me a piece of paper. DOMA is what started me down the path of NO FEAR. I was so pissed off that I “had to” live in Europe to be with my partner, and now I don’t care where we are, and I certainly don’t care about bs rules that tell us where we’re “supposed” to live. 🙂

    Soon I’m gonna write a blog about this. I’ve had it with the bullshit white dresses, 30K parties, and gov’t papers that say, “Yay! You have a real relationship now!” 😉

    Love your stuff, man. Rock on!

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    • alden - August 12, 2013 10:58 pm

      Fuck’em. Nobody knows best but you!

      Reply

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