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October 28 2014

I watched my friend punch a little dude once. Some realizations on toughness and anger

  Guess this is what it’s all about? This is a morbid tale of guys who try to be tough. It doesn’t exactly end well. It’s morbid because I think most guys have a problem. We want to be tough, Read More