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Stop thinking everyone wins over you

I hit an epiphany lately. And I’m sure it applies to you too. Okay how often is it when somebody, be it a loved one or just a friend upset you and/or annoy the hell out of you? It can be pretty upsetting eh? You in turn feel sad, angry, upset and even really hurt. You think about it for…

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Why you should be angry in a relationship

Okay quite frankly, I’m pretty pissed right now. I haven’t been sleeping well ugh. I’ve been overwhelmed with work too. Anyway, on the topic of anger, I want to talk about anger in a relationship. This is for those who feels like they’re being abused, emotionally or physically. And I think we should all be angry. We should use anger.…

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Strange girls talking shit behind my back

Ready for an interesting story? This one is about the time I was caught in the wrong side of the press. I had lies and false rumours being spread about me. And I found it funny as hell! A few years ago I at the club partying, drinking and having fun. I had a girl with me. She was my…

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Why I don’t believe in marrying your first love or at a young age

  Image from imgur You know, I get asked a lot: “Alden, why aren’t you planning your marriage already?” “Hey man, why do you wanna be single and date so many girls?” (When I was single a couple of years ago). “Dude, why are you such a player? You’ll never find true love.” And other bullshit. Now check out this…

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This is the meaning of real beauty

I always wanted to write about this. Let’s start off with the brilliant quote from Adrian’s Brody’s character in Detachment: Girls are being fed garbage by the media, that in order to be beautiful, they have to be slim, wear tight dresses, have long hair, be submissive to guys and even speak in an annoying way. In other words, they’re…

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I don’t think online dating is lame

Okay I want to admit something today. I think finding love online is awesome. And I’ve done it before. I know, I know. People think it’s “lame” or that if you set up a profile on Ok Cupid or whatever is like exposing yourself to weird strangers on the internet. Or worse, if you spend your time checking out other…

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20 regrets in life you really don’t want to have

1) Not travelling. The world is too big for a life this short. 2) Sticking to one relationship out of comfort and fear. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life with someone where you keep wondering if the grass is greener on the other side. That’s how infidelity is born. 3) Not saying, “I love you” to…

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I got a threat from a reader

Image from imgur And this was how it went down: Reader: “I cannot seem to unsubscribe from your mailing list. I don’t know what kind of crap you are trying to pull, but you had better unsubscribe me as I requested. Otherwise, I promise you I will make things difficult for your blog. Nothing illegal, just annoying and inconvenient!” My…

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My letter of assurance to you

Dear you, I’m going to be blunt. I’m pretty annoyed. I’m annoyed that all the victims in the world are not supported well enough. They’re always told to “get over it”, “man up”, “toughen up”, “life is unfair. Accept it” or that “good guys finish last.” Then all the bad guys seem to have it easy as they get away…

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What a little fat kid taught me about life

Okay I’m feeling a little more inspired lately. And since I love to write and I write a blog… it sort of hit me. Why am not writing everyday considering I’ve like a million ideas? So yep. Expect to hear more from me. Anyway I’ve got an amusing story for you today. It’s about a fat kid I encountered years ago and it…

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previous posts
Stop thinking everyone wins over you
Why you should be angry in a relationship
Strange girls talking shit behind my back