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July 12 2015

Unpopular opinion: Is it really so bad to have a clingy girlfriend?

Whenever I hear guys complain, “Oh fuck, my ex was horrible man. She was too clingy”, I tend to wonder why it’s such a bad thing as most guys make it out to be. If you look up the definition Read More