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October 22 2014

21 lessons from being in a long-distance relationship (which people thought wouldn’t work out)

  So I’ve been in a long-distance relationship (LDR) for a couple of years now. We mostly only get to see each other once a month. And I’ve never been more in love. I get the usual questions from friends Read More